How Tener Is Used in Everyday Spanish

See how Spanish speakers use tener for possession, age, hunger, feelings, pain and everyday obligations.

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Spanish phrases illustrating everyday uses of tener
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The Spanish verb tener is usually introduced as “to have,” and that’s certainly one of its main meanings. But everyday Spanish uses it in many situations where English would choose a completely different verb.

Spanish speakers use tener to talk about age, hunger, feelings, pain, obligation and what they feel like doing. Once you start noticing these expressions, you’ll hear forms such as tengo, tienes and tiene everywhere.

You can hear every main example spoken by a native Latin American Spanish speaker. The pronunciation guides are approximate, but they can help English speakers get close to the sound.

The most useful forms of tener

The form of tener changes according to who has or experiences something:

Spanish Meaning Form of tener
yo I tengo
you — informal, singular tienes
él / ella / usted he / she / you — formal tiene
nosotros / nosotras we tenemos
ellos / ellas / ustedes they / you — plural tienen

In Spain, you’ll also hear vosotros tenéis for the informal plural “you have.” Across most of Latin America, ustedes tienen is used when speaking to more than one person, whether the situation is formal or informal.

Spanish often leaves the subject pronoun out because the verb form already provides that information. Tengo normally means “I have” without needing to say yo.

Having or owning something

Tengo un perro.

Natural translation: I have a dog.

Pronunciation: TEN-goh oon PEH-rroh

Word for word: Tengo = I have · un = a · perro = dog

This is tener in its most direct sense: having or owning something. You can keep tengo and change what follows it:

  • Tengo un gato. — I have a cat.
  • Tengo dos gatos y un perro. — I have two cats and a dog.
  • Tengo una gran familia. — I have a large family.

The double rr in perro is rolled more strongly than a single Spanish r. If you can’t produce the full roll yet, concentrate on making the sound clearly different from the softer r in a word such as pero (“but”).

¿Tienes hijos?

Natural translation: Do you have children?

Pronunciation: TYEH-nehs EE-hohs

Word for word: Tienes = you have · hijos = children

Spanish doesn’t need an extra verb equivalent to English “do” when forming this question. The statement Tienes hijos means “You have children,” while the question ¿Tienes hijos? uses the same words with question intonation.

This version is informal and addressed to one person. The formal version is:

¿Tiene hijos?

Natural translation: Do you have children? — formal

Pronunciation: TYEH-neh EE-hohs

Word for word: Tiene = you have (formal) · hijos = children

The h in hijos is silent. The j has a breathy sound similar to a strong English h.

Talking about age

¿Cuántos años tienes?

Natural translation: How old are you?

Pronunciation: KWAHN-tohs AH-nyohs TYEH-nehs

Word for word: Cuántos = how many · años = years · tienes = you have

English asks how old someone is, but Spanish asks how many years they have. The question literally means “How many years do you have?”

The letter ñ in años sounds similar to ny in the English word “canyon.” It’s a different letter from n, and leaving off the mark changes the word completely: años means “years,” while anos refers to anuses.

The formal question is ¿Cuántos años tiene? (“How old are you?”). The same words can also mean “How old is he?” or “How old is she?” when the person is clear from context.

Tengo cuarenta años.

Natural translation: I’m forty years old.

Pronunciation: TEN-goh kwah-REHN-tah AH-nyohs

Word for word: Tengo = I have · cuarenta = forty · años = years

The natural English translation uses “I am,” but the Spanish structure is literally “I have forty years.”

You can replace cuarenta with any age:

  • Tengo veinte años. — I’m twenty years old.
  • Tengo treinta y cinco años. — I’m thirty-five years old.
  • Tengo sesenta años. — I’m sixty years old.

Don’t use soy or estoy to give your age. In Spanish, age belongs with tener.

Being hungry

Tengo hambre.

Natural translation: I’m hungry.

Pronunciation: TEN-goh AHM-breh

Word for word: Tengo = I have · hambre = hunger

Spanish treats hunger as something you have: tener hambre, literally “to have hunger.”

Thirst follows the same pattern:

Tengo sed. — I’m thirsty. Literally: “I have thirst.”

The h in hambre is silent, so the word begins directly with the a sound. Although hambre is a noun, the natural English translation uses the adjective “hungry.”

Saying someone is right

Tienes razón.

Natural translation: You are right.

Pronunciation: TYEH-nehs rrah-SOHN

Word for word: Tienes = you have · razón = reason

Spanish uses tener razón—literally, “to have reason”—where English uses “to be right.”

To disagree, you can say:

No tienes razón. — You are wrong. Literally: “You don’t have reason.”

The formal version is Tiene razón (“You are right”). This is also a useful polite response when someone has made a good point or corrected something accurately.

The final syllable of razón carries the stress. In most of Latin America, the z sounds like an English s.

Saying what you feel like doing

Tengo ganas de salir esta noche.

Natural translation: I feel like going out tonight.

Pronunciation: TEN-goh GAH-nahs deh sah-LEER EHS-tah NOH-cheh

Word for word: Tengo = I have · ganas = desire · de = to/of · salir = to go out · esta noche = tonight

The expression tener ganas de means to feel like doing something or to be in the mood for it. It’s followed by an infinitive—the unchanged verb form ending in -ar, -er or -ir.

For example:

  • Tengo ganas de bañarme. — I feel like taking a bath.
  • No tengo ganas de ir a casa. — I don’t feel like going home.
  • Él tiene ganas de comer algo. — He feels like eating something.

The plural-looking ganas is part of the expression, even when one person is speaking. Don’t change it to singular gana here.

Expressing fear

¿De qué tienes miedo?

Natural translation: What are you scared of?

Pronunciation: deh keh TYEH-nehs MYEH-doh

Word for word: De = of · qué = what · tienes = you have · miedo = fear

The Spanish expression tener miedo means “to be afraid” or “to be scared.” Word for word, the question asks, “Of what do you have fear?”

The written accent in qué is important because this is a question word. Without the accent, que normally means “that” or “which.”

The formal version is ¿De qué tiene miedo? (“What are you scared of?”).

Tengo miedo de la oscuridad.

Natural translation: I’m scared of the dark.

Pronunciation: TEN-goh MYEH-doh deh lah ohs-koo-ree-DAHD

Word for word: Tengo = I have · miedo = fear · de = of · la = the · oscuridad = darkness

After tener miedo, Spanish commonly uses de before the thing or action causing the fear:

  • miedo de la oscuridad — fear of the dark
  • miedo de volar — fear of flying
  • miedo de decir la verdad — fear of telling the truth

You’ll also hear miedo a in many regions and contexts, especially before nouns: miedo a las arañas (“fear of spiders”). Both patterns are common, and the exact preference can vary.

Talking about pain

Tengo dolor de cabeza.

Natural translation: I have a headache.

Pronunciation: TEN-goh doh-LOHR deh kah-BEH-sah

Word for word: Tengo = I have · dolor = pain · de = of · cabeza = head

Spanish describes many aches with tener dolor de, literally “to have pain of.” The body part follows de:

  • dolor de espalda — back pain
  • dolor de estómago — stomachache
  • dolor de garganta — sore throat

In everyday speech, you may also hear Me duele la cabeza (“My head hurts”). The meaning is similar, but the structure is different.

In Latin American Spanish, the z in cabeza sounds like s. The stress falls on be: kah-BEH-sah.

Tener que: saying what you have to do

Tengo que irme. Mis hijos están esperando.

Natural translation: I have to go. My children are waiting.

Pronunciation: TEN-goh keh EER-meh. mees EE-hohs ehs-TAHN ehs-peh-RAHN-doh

Word for word: Tengo = I have · que = to · irme = leave/go myself · mis = my · hijos = children · están = are · esperando = waiting

Tener que + infinitive expresses obligation or necessity. It corresponds to “to have to” in English:

  • Tengo que trabajar. — I have to work.
  • Tienes que esperar. — You have to wait.
  • Tenemos que hablar. — We have to talk.

In tengo que irme, the pronoun me is attached to ir. The phrase means that the speaker needs to leave, not simply that they need to go somewhere.

The h in hijos remains silent, while the j carries the strong breathy sound.

Talking about a past obligation

Tuve que ir a la farmacia hoy.

Natural translation: I had to go to the pharmacy today.

Pronunciation: TOO-beh keh eer ah lah fahr-MAH-syah oy

Word for word: Tuve = I had · que = to · ir = go · a = to · la = the · farmacia = pharmacy · hoy = today

Tuve is a past form of tener. Together with que, it describes something that became necessary and was completed: “I had to.”

The pattern remains the same even though the form of tener changes:

  • Tengo que ir. — I have to go.
  • Tuve que ir. — I had to go.
  • Tendré que ir. — I’ll have to go.

The h in hoy is silent, so the word sounds approximately like “oy.” In farmacia, the cia ending sounds roughly like “syah” in Latin American Spanish.

Tener isn’t used for every English “have”

English uses “have” both for possession and as a helping verb: “I have a dog” and “I have eaten.” Spanish separates those uses.

Use tener for possession and the expressions covered in this article:

Tengo un perro. — I have a dog.

But Spanish normally uses haber as the helping verb before a past participle:

He comido. — I have eaten.

Using tengo comido as a direct translation of “I have eaten” would normally be incorrect. Recognizing the difference between tener and haber prevents one of the most common literal-translation mistakes.

Informal and formal forms

Here’s how some common expressions change when you address one person formally:

Meaning Informal Formal
Do you have children? ¿Tienes hijos? ¿Tiene hijos?
How old are you? ¿Cuántos años tienes? ¿Cuántos años tiene?
You are right. Tienes razón. Tiene razón.
What are you scared of? ¿De qué tienes miedo? ¿De qué tiene miedo?
You have to wait. Tienes que esperar. Tiene que esperar.

Use forms such as tienes with friends, relatives, children and people speaking in a relaxed setting. Use usted forms such as tiene when politeness or distance is appropriate.

How quickly people switch to informal language varies across Latin America. In some places usted is common even in fairly relaxed conversations; elsewhere, new acquaintances move to quickly.

A short everyday exchange

Person 1: ¿Tienes hambre?
Person 2: Sí, pero no tengo ganas de cocinar.
Person 1: Tienes razón. Es tarde.
Person 2: Tengo que irme pronto. ¿Comemos algo ahora?

Natural translation:

Person 1: Are you hungry?
Person 2: Yes, but I don’t feel like cooking.
Person 1: You’re right. It’s late.
Person 2: I have to leave soon. Shall we eat something now?

This short exchange brings together hunger, desire, agreement and obligation. English uses several different structures, while Spanish connects all four ideas with tener.

One verb, many everyday meanings

Once you recognize the expressions built with tener, many Spanish sentences become easier to understand. The verb can tell you what someone owns, how old they are, what they feel, whether something hurts and what they need to do.

Learning these expressions as complete phrases is more useful than translating tener as “to have” every time. Tengo hambre, Tienes razón and Tengo ganas de salir each work as a natural unit with its own conversational meaning.

The main examples in this article are taken from the LinguaBoost Spanish course and recorded by a native Latin American Spanish speaker.

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